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Kelly Whalen is a very 'Centsible' Mama! You may have seen her on The Today Show and all over Philly television sharing her tips on keeping your family Centsible!

 

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Tooth Fairy Inflation

Posted By Kelly Whalen (Gehrmann), Sunday, March 28, 2010
When I was a little girl the tooth fairy brought me a crisp $1 bill. At the time that was the high end of the elementary school playground and the envy of my friends who got shiny quarters. 

Now that my kids have lost a few teeth I've been indoctrinated into the inflation that the poor Tooth Fairy has been going through despite the economy.

My girls have come home from school with stories of $20 bills found under pillows, or in one case an American Girl doll (retail value over $100) sitting by the bed in the morning after a lost tooth. 

To avoid the same inflation we created our own system in our house. With 4 kids, lost teeth could add up to hundreds of dollars if we aren't careful. Instead we do the following:
  • 1st tooth gets something special: Why do we do this? Because the kids are hearing this from ALL their friends. I'm not keeping up with the Joneses, I'm keeping up with the Joneses' kids!
  • All other teeth get a $1 gold coin: A $1 gold coin is way cooler than a dollar bill, plus it's GOLD which to my kids means it's worth a lot more, and they won't go to Target and spending it on something made in China. ;)
Tooth Fairy PSA: If you don't do the tooth fairy (or other imaginary gift giving people like Santa and the Easter Bunny) in your house PLEASE tell your kids they are in on a secret and not to share that with their friends. I'm still mad one of my kids had a friend who routinely said the Tooth fairy and Santa don't exist. I respect your belief not to tell your kids a story, but PLEASE don't let them tell other kids-it ruins their fun!

How much do your kids get from the tooth fairy? Do your kids still believe?

Kelly, you can follow me on twitter our stop by my blog!

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Online money management: Save Time and Money

Posted By Kelly Whalen (Gehrmann), Thursday, February 18, 2010
As a busy mom of 4 I know it can be hard to find time to manage your money, but since moms manage (and spend ;)) most of the money in families, it's a good idea to share money management with your spouse.

One of the easiest ways to keep track of multiple accounts is to use an online money management system. You basically enter your usernames and passwords (don't worry they aren't stored in a place anyone can get to them), and these handy sites upload your balance and transactions for you. 

Who online money management is for: couples with many accounts, who are tech savvy, or use smartphones.

Who might consider sticking to pen and paper: couples who handwrite a budget, or use only cash, those who aren't tech savvy, or don't get online frequently.

Of the dozens of sites on the web, I have 3 I favor heavily.

-Mint (FREE): Mint.com is a fantastic site. In fact it is SO good it put QuickenOnline out of business! Owners of Quicken, Intuit, recently purchased Mint, though the management team has stayed on. Mint has the most easy to use, gorgeous interface. You can manually upload accounts, but most accounts can be set to automatically upload. That means when I log in I get a snapshot of my account balances, my budgets, and my net worth.

Pros: Mint has a great iPhone app that I use frequently. Mint sends emails to you when a payment is due, or you are approaching your budget limit, or account limits.

Cons: Occasionally Mint has some hiccups, and some of the features I wish I could turn off, but mostly it's a fantastic and pain-free way to manage all your accounts in one place.

-Wesabe( FREE): Wesabe.com brings a social aspect to money management. Have a question about the site and features, someone from Wesabe will answer you, maybe even the CEO! You can also ask questions of the many dedicated community members. Wesabe's interface is very smooth, and it works similarly to Mint. 

Pros: Wesabe has fantastic graphs. I love how you can customize the graphs to see what spending vs. earning or pie charts that show how much of your spending goes towards debt, housing, etc. 

Cons: Some banks don't play well with Wesabe, and require uploading. It can take some time to set it up the way you want, depending on how much data you upload it could take a few hours.

-Pocketsmith(FREE plans, and pay plans for $5 or $12/month): Pocketsmith.com is a bit different than my other recommendations. Pocketsmith is all about uploading. Every time you get on you upload your info. What makes it unique though is it is based on a calendar, so you can enter expenses, income, etc. and it projects your net worth growth. 

Pros: Clean, easy to use interface. Ability to forecast instead of only looking back at past spending. 

Cons: Uploading info, I'm not a fan of work in general and uploading multiple accounts is time consuming. 

What way do you manage your money? Do you use online tools, software or a good old pad and pen?

Kelly
Find Kelly's blog at The Centsible Life or follow her on twitter.

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Kids and Allowance

Posted By Kelly Whalen (Gehrmann), Monday, February 08, 2010
If you are a mom chances are you have been to the store and heard, "Mom, pleeeeeeeaaaaassssseeee can I have that thingamajig?"

Nothing makes me crazier. 
What's a busy mom to do? Give your child an allowance!

Once the word allowance enters your mind there are several questions that follow:

  • Should the allowance be given freely OR tied to chores?
  • Should I only pay for extra chores?
  • How much money should I give my kid?
  • Should I let them spend it on what they want OR should I force them to save a portion of it?
  • Coins, bills, or a savings account?
  • How often should I give him/her allowance?
I’m sure you can come up with at least 1/2 dozen more!

There are plenty of approaches to dealing with kids and allowances, from tying the money to chores to giving them $1 a week. There is no "right" approach to allowances, just the approach that makes sense for you and your kids. 

In my family of 6, we pay our kids bi-weekly an amount equal to their age. We used to take them shopping on payday, but quickly learned by doing so we were teaching them to spend every dime. The kids use wallets to hold their cash, and take them along when we go out. They have been saving more this way, and all 4 of the kids are now interested in opening up savings accounts.

They use their money as they see fit. I do not ask that they donate a certain amount, or save a certain amount. My oldest daughter decided she likes buying lunch at school, so she invested $10 in her lunch account so she can choose when she wants to buy.

We also have a family change jar we use to save for larger goals. Right now we are saving up for a Disney vacation.

How do you deal with kids and allowance?

Kelly



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